Friday, January 21, 2011

K(no)w Homo

I must say that some of the most “macho, beef n’ potatoes, masculine to the death” type of men seems to be the main ones with their legs hitting the chandelier. And I’ve seen the biggest, gayest of gay men in all of Gay-history slinging more Dick than a little bit.
                You know, it’s cool, do what you do, but I have a problem with us (of the gay community/lifestyle) automatically putting someone in a sexually-orientated box based solely on how masculine or feminism they appear to be. We’re all guilty of generalizing: “Oh, listen to that lisp, he’s a total bottom”. Or when you see a couple, you wonder who’s on top and who’s on bottom. When in reality, there are more Versatile couples than the traditional top/bottom couple.
                For example: I’m the kind of guy who balances himself on the fence of masculinity and femininity. It’s not so much that I walk with a switch, talk with a lisp, or anything of the sort.

1.       I have the gay “accent” as I like to call it: I don’t have a drag-queen, “Honey, girl, chiiiilllleee…” type of voice (or vocabulary) but you cannot deny the fact that you hear the RuPaul in my tone/pitch/range, etc.
2.       Mannerisms: my gestures are wide, erratic, flamboyant, if you will. I don’t have a “broken wrist” but I do have a bad habit of walking with a hand on my hip.

3.       Some days, I’m more feminine than masculine and vice versa. And what I’ve found is that on days when I’m feeling more Fem than masc, I’ll want to be on bottom and vice versa when I feel masculine. Don’t ask why. It’s not like I wake up one morning and decide HOW I want to be. It’s just something that has always happened. Tonight, for example, I think I’m leaning more towards the Masculine side…

                I’m only 5’4”, and so many guys assume that I’m a bottom. Hell, if you’re short, you don’t even qualify for Top in the Gay world. BUT LOOK: STRAIGHT UP, IF I’M GIVING MY DUDE HEAD, IT’S BECAUSE HE’S A TOP. I think it’s really cool that people like Bobby Blake, a totally masculine guy, can give head to his Bottoms with no problem. But for me, if I’m sucking dick, it’s because I’m letting him have full control of me. And if I suck my Bottom’s dick, it’s just… not the same. Idk y.

And by the way, I've told yall before that I've been called a "male lesbian" a few times. What that means is that even if/when I am Fem, or even masc, I'm still attracted to Fem guys. Idk what it is, but even if I'm Fem too, it's just cute and sexy and hot to me. I have fantasies where my man sits back and watches me and another bottom do all kinds of foreplay, ass play, kissing, etc. Damn, if only I could show you guys what it's like in this freaky head of mine! 

                ANOTHER THING, EVEN IF I’M GIVING HIM HEAD, I’M CERTAINLY GONNA TRY AND SLIP MY TONGUE IN HIS HOLE. IF HE DOESN’T STOP ME, I’LL TRY AND PUT A FINGER IN. IF HE STILL DOESN’T STOP ME, I’M GONNA ASK HIM IF HE WANTS SOME OF THIS DIIIIIIICCCCCKKKKKK!!!!

…and that’s usually how I turn a Top out… us men will do anything when our dicks are hard. Here’s to the next boner, courtesy of…

--Cogito

Never trust a big but and a smile! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YejxyaFyUHc











3 comments:

  1. Hot pix, wow!

    As an effeminate guy -- naturally, with no affectation, no emoting -- I nodded and smiled to myself when you noted how you walk with your hand on your hip. I, too, amble down 8th Ave just so, and have no damned idea I'm doing it. It's me, a guy with a feminine demeanor.

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